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Last time Venus was retrograde my ex-boyfriend and I made contact after almost a year apart (I wasn’t aware of Venus retrograde at the time). We had a big emotional reunion but our relationship ended in Sept 08. I still have a huge emotional attachment to him and I believe he has to me – we just can’t seem to resolve the issues he has with jealousy and my inability to fully open up to him. I am worried about either making the same mistake during this retrograde period or worse, missing the opportunity to make things right. I am a Capricorn (25 Dec 57) he is Virgo (30 Aug 69) – any advice?
I myself am curious about the venus retrograde.
I broke up with my boyfriend right before new year do to need for personal transformation. As the transformation began to take place I realized how deeply I really love him, however he ended up getting with another girl. I’ve been debating between giving him space and making a move. I really want to get him back in my life and am wondering if Venus-retrograde is an oportune time to do so, or if I’d be better off waiting till after.
I really love this man, and know that this new girl is just a rebound so to speak. Is there a possibility that the Venus Retrograde will cause him to rethink the matter?
Thanks for being enlightening as always! My natal Venus is in Leo in the sixth House, and therefore illuminates work and daily life. So it is probably no surprise that a poor relationship with my line manager that has festered for more than a year should come to a head right now. My plan is to approach HR and apply for a transfer, after detailing what’s happened, and my various efforts to cope. Do you think that’s a good use of the options generated by Venus Rx? How much of a chance of this working out well? Is it possible to tell?
I have had an appt for cosmetic surgery/chem peel during the period of Venus retrograde 2009/April. I’ve had this scheduled for quite a few months. Is this something I should reschedule? Please explain. Thank you.
is it possible myself and my ex will finally sort things out during the venus retrograde? currently venus is conjunct my mercury. we were together during the venus retrograde in 2006,our relationship has been a rollarcoaster, and neither of us has been able to let go….. i am a taurus with a cancer asc and he is a libra with a cap asc. our asc are opp.
your advice will be greatly apreciated.
I’d like to thank you for all the
time and effort you’re dedicating to all of us here..
I’m a libran and I’ve scheduled to go in for a simple facial gel injection tomorrow.. Is this considered as plastic surgery? I rather not take even the slightest of risks as I’m going away on a long holiday this weekend..
And with Venus being retrograde, does it mean that our perspective, decision making and sense of beauty gets altered or irrational or things (beauty wise) are just bound to go wrong during this period??
I wanted our relationship with a good friend of mine, she’s a Taurus, I’m a Scorpio, I wanted to take the relationship from friendship to something more. I currently have a boyfriend of 11 years and she knows this. I told her on a whim that I was going to move out and I’d invite her to my place when I did. Well, I never did move out. My boyfriend and I worked it out… though I think she still thought I was going to move out. It was never clear to both of us if we had feelings for each other, but I think that she did for me because she has since stopped talking to me. It’s been 7 months and I’ve been texting her, emailing her, and sending her small gifts to get her to talk to me and she has cut off all communication with me. What can I do to get her friendship back? or if she wants a relationship, I was willing to leave my boyfriend for her but I never got the chance to tell her. Will this Venus Retrograde help us? or Will she eventually call it quits and let go of my definitely?
I want to thank you for the wonderful insights..esp when you said ..give enough time & space for self and honour our internal feelings , hurt etc..
this is i am finding very helpful albeit ..after acting hastily ..in breaking a blossoming friendship ..but regards to you
I’m an Aries (March 26) and an old financial situation has appeared. I owe taxes. And the repayment would cause a financial burden for me. So I was thinking about seeing a lawyer, like one of those firms that cuts your taxes to pennies on the dollar. But I’m not sure if I want to pay someone to get me out this mess I created myself. I’m thinking about biting the bullet and accepting the irs payment plan and finding whatever creative way I can to supplement my income. And if after a month or two I find that its absolutely too much, then I’ll go see a lawyer. What do you think?
I also have been thinking about changing the way I wear my hair for over a year now. I wanted to do it before my birthday. Should I really reconsider this?
Hi Tiffany— I think you should get informed before you sign anything. Once you accept the payment plan, it may be more difficult and more costly or maybe impossible to renegotiate it. I don’t know, I have never been in trouble with the IRS so I don’t know the ins and outs. But the logical thing to do seems to be to get the legal advice before you accept the terms. Good luck.
I have a friend whom I started having feelings for. I made it known to her that I like her on Valentine’s Day and we’ve hung out since then and we’ve still text or call each other but its become kind of stagnant and I don’t know where I stand with her or how she feels about me at this time. We have not talked about where the relationship is heading and I don’t plan to do or say anything again until Venus goes direct. Thing is her birthday is coming up next week and I’m would like to spend time with her and take her out to dinner or something but I don’t want to ruin anything if I take her out or if I don’t take her out. So Im not sure what to do.
Hi Lou— Lucky you, having a thing for an Aries chick!
I was kind of dating my boyfriend, sort of like you, during Venus retrograde in 2002. We were friends. He knew I liked him, but we weren’t ready to take it anywhere yet. So we hung out a few times but kept it loose. No pressure. And that worked well in the end. (He’s sitting right next to me at the moment and we’re laughing about our weird Venus retro-date.)
Your thinking sounds good. She knows you care, wish her well on her birthday and let her know you’re interested in taking her out, but then give her space and let her respond in her own time. Good luck.
MY boyfriend and I were living together in a agreat relationship and out of nowhere on Jan 23, 2009 (Mercury Retrograde) he tells me he’s confused and needs time. I feel the love is still there, but, I’ve moved back home and now i want to know if things may change after this venus retrograde.
Hi PJ— I don’t have enough info to form an opinion on whether the relationship really was that great, what kind of stuff you and he are going through individually, what the long term potential of the relationship is. All I know is that Venus is retrograde, and that causes a strange kind of intensity and longing that tends not to go anywhere. After Venus rx is over, either things progress, or you realize you didn’t really want them to.
Venus was not retrograde, however, in January.
If you want to explore it, I invite you to check out my services and book a reading.
sometimes your advice is is the only thing that keeps me sane! Going through a bad time with computers and business details and would love some insight. I’m a in a solid “soul mate” (please god) relationship, but it’s always work, for those who are reading.
Compliments on your tax advice. I am an expert and never agree to a payment schedule/settlement you may not be able to continue. Not soliciting, “not my department”, but you MUST do your negotiations BEFORE any agreements. See a local attorney, not necessarily one of those firms on late night TV. Just an opinion.
Would love to know why I can’t do simple computer functions. J.
For computer talent or lack thereof, look at Mercury. I have Mercury in Aries opposite Uranus and have always been intuitive with computers and a fast learner. Also with math and astrology. Some folks just don’t have that “gene,” and it’s probably best to just hire someone and save yourself the time & stress.
Don’t know what’s in your chart, but we could look at it together sometime if you ever want to do a reading. :)
Hi Goggles, thought it was answered in the article. Venus retro is a weird time for relationships. If it’s already weird between you two, it probably won’t help. I’m sure anything is possible, but in my experience it does not help. If someone doesn’t want to hear from you, all you can do is wait until she is ready.
could u please predict my future. i need ur help. i am about to loose my job due to this venus retrograde. my birth deatils are given below…plz calculate and help. And also tell me when will i get married? will i be rich? Temme about my spouse to be.. will it be love or arrange maariage? what will he do (job/biz)?and plz plz plz send it to my email id..thanx in advance n god bless u!!!
Name : S
DoB : 8th Dec. 1979
ToB : 10:20 AM
PoB : New Delhi, India
I’m curious what your comment would be about a breakup. That happened on March 19th which is to my understanding about the time of the venus retrograde… Thing is i’ve been in love with this girl for a few months, and i would like to at least talk to her but she resists every attempt to discuss why we broke up or even the details of what to do post breakup. For example when she will bring my things to my house(she lives three states away)? She would rather ignore me than talk to me. As an aries(with virgo rising) im infuriated with this. She’s a virgo with virgo rising. She’s very secretive we’ve known each other for 8 months and i wonder why she hides so many things from me. It was like “go home Cody” and that was the end of the conversation. She tries so hard to ignore the fact that we both hurt. she was born xxdeletedxxx and i april 19, 1985 at 4:19 pm(Both in Gaylord MI). Will the end of the venus retrograde change anything? Or is this really how things will stay?
Dear Molly, I need to buy a car. Mine blew up Feb. 20 and I have the opportunity to buy two cars. One is very clean but not a wagon, the other is low mileage and a wagon. I like wagons so I can go camping at Festivals. I have not seen either one but friends have seen the first and the other I found online. I mourn my 1989 wagon and can not now do anything but walk to the grocery store. Please advise. Is it OK to buy a car now? (I am a Taurus Sun and Moon with Virgo rising and Gemini Venus, Mercury 15 Aries.)Thank you for your thoughts. Gwyn
Hi Gwyn— yes, you can buy a car if you know cars well or if you have YOUR mechanic give it a thorough checking over before you buy it. The danger with Venus retrograde is we buy the fluff and overlook the substance. So “clean” is not enough, I would be more drawn to “low mileage.”
Cody, breakups during Venus rx don’t always stick. But it sounds to me like you need to rein in your Aries and give your friend some space. Aries wants answers RIGHTNOW, but sorry darlin’, you can’t have it. And you can screw it up completely if you keep harassing the poor girl. Take this time to understand things, evaluate your own behavior in this, and work on yourself.
I do not have the time or inclination to run your charts and delineate them here in the comments.
your reply was greatly appreciated. However i worry about her being around people that are manipulating her for their own purposes. So she may not be ready to settle down…. But why does that mean that words cannot be spoken between us? She may not die or anything drastic, its just that i really do beleive she’d be better off with me around to off set for example her aries mother that wanted to get rid of me before she even knew me. I dont see how spending all of her time with a guy that will knowingly die because of his past drug abuse. I have a really hard time beleiving that these people truly have her best interest in mind. That might just be the virgo justifiing the aries impatience though. Thanx a million molly:)
um, yeah Cody.. controlling much? She doesn’t want to talk to you right now. You’re worried about her influences? Are you trying to be her friend or her parent? These are her battles to fight and her decisions to make.
This is a time to be looking at yourself and your relationship patterns, not obsessing over someone else. Start with this question: why do you want to be with someone in whom you have so little confidence to make the right decisions and listen to the right people? This is not a pattern that leads to long term success and happily ever after. Let her go, Cody. Stop calling her and focus on yourself.
I had a close friend. a year ago he separated from his wife and two kids..he and i became friends and got close.. over the months i developed feelings for him. and I think he did too. the chemistry was apparent from the word go. yet I chose to be friends first. however his feelings seem to dwindle sometime two months ago, he would be civil and friendly in public but disappear otherwise, unable to tolerate his vanishing act I wrote him a mail last week of my issues with his vanishing more as a friend than as a possible lover, (because he didn’t respond to any text or call). He did not take it well, found the mail “judgmental” and thought best that we are not friends.It was written with anger.. whether this was venus retrograde or not, I grieve his loss and thinking what I may broached it better or shouldn;t have said anything at all. however I am also happy that I said it like it is rather than pussyfooting around him and let him vanish and appear when he wanted to, because I was there for him all along. he is a leo, with scorpio rising, moon in aries I am a capricorn with pisces rising, moon in scorpio. and I do miss him as a very close and good friend in my life and don’t think he would want reconcile to even being friends again. which is very very sad. should i regret what i did? can you advise?
I think it’s very, very normal for a guy who left his family just one year ago to be confused about moving forward with a new relationship. A year is not a long time. That is a huge life transition, and I imagine, very difficult and sad for him. Someone in a place in their life like that, I just don’t think it’s fair to expect them to be there for you consistently. Maybe that’s why he’s angry? (If that’s the case, it actually sounds like a healthy reaction he’s having.)
I think you should think about apologizing and backing off, if you want to keep him in your life.
Then work on yourself. Ask yourself, why are you drawn to a relationship with someone who is not emotionally available? Is this a pattern in your life?
I think this Venus retro in Aries is making it hard for people to look at things from another person’s perspective. That seems to be the theme that’s emerging lately.
p.s. Cody, if she won’t take your calls, you can go through the courts to get your stuff back. I think it’s a person’s right to cut ties, but not giving you back your stuff isn’t cool and kind of sends the opposite message, doesn't it. (But I think you should offer to pick it up rather than waiting for her to bring it.)
I am DOB 5 NOV 1958. That’s scorpio, virgo rising, moon in Leo, Glendale AZ. She is DOB 31 MAY 1955, 6 AM, Detroit. That’ gemini,
I first laid eyes on the love of my life in a vision, while running around a cinder track in Spain, in 1973. I got married in 1980, and then, WHAM, saw her for the first time in September 1985, walking around the hall in the second year of law school. I was floored. We had some flirtatious banter, but no. I was married, etc. I couldn’t.
In 2006, I left my wife and family and moved in with her. We have had a passionate and also a professional relationship ever since. We supported and benefitted each other, and I had no idea that two human beings could be so compatible. Sex was mind blowing. Everything I ever dreamed.
Of course, her family rejected me; then, beginning in late 2007, I had some professional problems; then the collapse of the economy combined with the other stressed. She ended the romantic part of our relationship at the end of February 2009.
The result has been pain. I have done several chart analyses and I don’t know what to think except that I am having a very hard time recovering myself after having thrown my family away to invest all I am into her. Is this a Venution retrograde “space” thing, or have I just lost a very bad bet?
Joel— Wow, 26 years. How incredibly sad. Looks like you had a few Neptune transits to your Scorpio planets, found something “perfect,” sacrificed your family. Then Uranus squared your Saturn, and you lost the bet, buddy. Sorry.
I just wanted to say I’m glad I came across this website by doing some research on venus in retrograde. My impatience would have probably taken over and could have been a deal breaker in my current situation had I not known about this(see post from 3/16). I did some of wht you suggested as I called her on her birthday and wished her well. I also made it known that I wanted to do something for her birthday either lunch or dinner but she had plans with the girls on her b-day but was interested in going to lunch sometime during the week. I was planning to take her out to lunch but I had to change plans with her because I had my nieces over, and then I had a job interview. I’m glad this happened because I told her I won’t be able to see her until sometime in April and she responded by saying its ok April is just around the corner(I guess I can take that for what its worth). Anyways I really want to see her but I am going to wait until venus goes direct on the 18th to make plans. It works out anyways because I’m finsihing up my last semester of grad school(I graduate in May) and she is finishing her 1st year of grad school. I am going to limit my contact with her as well. She did call me yesterday to see how my interview went but I was at work and could not talk much. We talked today and she said it was nice talking to you as we ended our half hour long conversation.
Also just wanted to let you know that I’m a Sagittarius(my b-day isDecember 2nd) and my romantic interest is an Aries(March 23 is her b-day)
Also looking back to the last time venus was in retrograde from July 27th to September 9th in 2007, that was a very bad time for me relationship wise. Although I did lose my virginity during that time, the relationship went downhill from then on. My impatience(could be seen as clinginess) with wanting a long-term relationship was probably my doom back then. I guess this time I learned to give people space and if things don’t work out move on and say at least your tried. I guess what I’m saying is fisrt of all thank you and I think that I’ve gained some insight about myself but I think there still may be more insight to gain.
Another note is this a good time to job hunt and go on interviews?
This is a general thing for all signs, so all of the above applies to you. Venus is in Aries, and Aries and Leo are both fire (sympatico), so there may be some benefit, although Venus is weak in Aries and can only do so much.
I met a girl before Venus turned retrograde. We had four dates and fourth one went to holding hands and kissing. After venus turned retrograde, she told me she just recently had a breakup with her ex and this is going too fast. She said she wants to go slow. I was sceptical too but I agreed. First, it was lot of hanging together and again went back to kissing and holding hands and romantic walks. She kept talking as if she already saw me as her guy in the future. She told her mom and best friends. She even was jealous if any other girl approached me and she did not like the idea of not seeing me. However, on april 4th, even though it was one of the most romantic dates, something clicked that night when I left her to the train. She broke up with me on Sunday and said she will never ever feel the way I feel for her ever. She said she was trying but it won’t work. Did she take a very haste decision that too in Venus retrograde period? Is it possible after Venus turns direct she might want me back? I am an Aquarius and she is too.
Krishkirthi, yes it is possible she may change her mind. But remember, breakups are very difficult— it’s also possible that she won’t change her mind. And you have to be okay with that. Think about it— do you want to be with someone who is still emotionally tied up with her ex?
The ball is in her court at this point. Don’t bug her, give her the space she asked for. Let her come to you if and when she is ready.
p.s. Lou— thank you, and yes, I think you can go on interviews. The end of Venus retro has a nice little positive “punch” to it as Venus backs into Pisces and conjoins Mars. The end of a sign is about resolving, completing, and tying up loose ends.
But Venus still has to make is allll the way through Aries again— not a strong sign for Venus. Things that went wonky during this Venus rx may not completely straighten out until Venus enters Taurus in early June— and gets her mojo back.
Interesting article on an interesting topic. I’ve had a confusing time thus far during this retrograde and would appreciate any insight. On March 14th I talked to my (long distance) boyfriend and he was crying and saying he missed me so much, then silence, for a week (not typical). Then March 21st he calls and says he needs a break and that he needs time to figure out who he is / not a problem with us except that he feels upset and distracted etc… The relationship had been sailing smoothly along at a nice, slow but even pace until then. At any rate, I’ve given him space, I let him call me, I email once a week or so but otherwise have totally backed off and just been there for him when he calls… which he does, more and more frequently. He is as affectionate as ever during the phone calls which is where the confusion on my end comes in. In lieu of badgering him for answers I really think he doesn’t have I thought I’d just badger you! Any insight? BTW, Him: Sun Cancer, Moon Cap, Asc Pisces, Venus Cancer, Me: Sun Sag, Moon Aries, Asc Leo, Venus Cap
Casey, I’m not a psychic. I don’t know whether he feels conflicted or guilty about something or what. I certainly can’t see much with only Sun Moon & Risings (except that just going on those you don’t sound terribly compatible). I do know that Venus retro is time to let go for the time being, find yourself and love yourself.
Hello molly. during this retrograde cycle, many of my friend ships have gone wrong, and people are starting to get annoyed of me, and i have to give space to certain friends of mine, that say im really pissing them off lately,, Do you think they will change there mind about me once retrograde is over? and that i will have my friends back again?..
Alana, wait it out for now. Next week when the retro is over, ask one of your friends what it is they are p.o.‘ed about. Then listen to the answer, really listen. Don’t argue. If you’re willing to listen and adapt, good friends are more likely to stick with you.
After a very confusing and sudden experience I started to look for something to give me answers and the first thing I found was your article. So many things became clear and I couldn’t believe how much this applies to my situation!! I have to share this with you.
2.5 years ago I met ‘‘the’‘ person, in every aspect everything I can wish for in someone and more. We had several very beautiful, emotional and spiritual experiences. Not to be explained in words.
The relationships I had in life were always ended by me, because something was missing and I couldn’t make the commitment. With him it’s different. It’s so intense. On the other hand he (cancer) has a way to be unclear about his feelings and not commiting for a long term relationship. So I let it go, but he was always in my heart.
After just being friends for months and not going into his efforts to be more intimate, we surprisingly started something on February 14th. Due to busy schedules we didn’t see each other until March 6th – that day was an amazing start of ‘‘something special’‘ – during this time it started to be more intense, mature and him opening up more and more.
On April 11th all of the sudden he let me know he felt like being friends again cause it seems like the best way for him now. He communicated this to me in a way I couldn’t answer him properly and I was shocked, didn’t see it coming, especially not after him being so warm and us being so close. I was hurt and wanted an explanation. I am Libra SUN-MERCURY-VENUS-PLUTO / Sag. MOON-NEPTUNE / Aries RISINGSUN / Taurus CHIRON /
Taking the advise of a good friend and then reading your amazing article, I decided nor to show him how hurt I felt, nor ignoring him, but in stead on April 13th letting him know I’m not angry, I care about him and his feelings and whenever he felt like talking I would be here.
I felt surprisingly relieved and balanced after letting him this know, my pain fell from me and I felt calm. Needless to say I still love him and if it’s meant to be I would go back with him.
He was very happy with my statement and told me we would talk soon. Today (again a strange date, although I don’t really understand why) he phoned me a we had a nice, casual conversation. This deep friendship is possible because we respect each other a lot and both are very concerned about not hurting others. He wanted to start about his behaviour and action and then we agreed it would be better to do it in person and made a more or less agreement for Saturday the 18th. (is that too soon??)
This is an ultra-sensitive person, very intuitive, tender, with nothing but good in his heart, yet can shut his feelings off all of the sudden and doesn’t have the experience nor mature attitude when it comes to relationships yet.
I never understood what he exactly feels for me or what he wants, I can just feel what goes on between us and it’s not a common thing at all, we both know it. I hope we will be able to clear up most of this and understand where we both stand so that we can move on to whatever the best is for both.
I don’t know if he is for me, I really wish so, I know myself well enough to know he is exactly who I want and love. But I don’t want anything or anyone that ‘‘isn’t for me’‘ – I try to give it all the time and space it needs and we’ll see.
In the past days I tried to recapitualte on myself, my needs and behaviour in relationships and I realised for the first time in a relationship with a man I feel like giving is more important than taking. It feels so good and pure and is opposite of what I thought in past relationships, that they were the ones to please me in the first place. Now I feel differently, because in true love giving feels more rewarding than receiving. Although while I was with this person, he gave me so much, it was very balanced.
Molly, sorry for the long message, I just felt like writing you after finding in your words answers that seemed to be directed directly to me!
Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge..and feedback is very welcome.
sorry to bother you again. Just wanted to give you an update on my situation. I received a call today from the person I am interested in and she told me that she has no romantic interest in me but would still like for us to remain the great friends that we are. I’m really not sure why it took her so long but theres nothing I can do and theres no use in me pursuing her anymore. Sure my heart is broken but I have to go on somehow. anyways I just really wanted to vent
I’m in a “friendship” with a Taurus. I realize that I can’t be his friend, his indecisiveness is driving me crazy, it’s not working and I want more. Should I wait until after the retrograde to tell him?
have read all the comments on the venus Retro and thought I’d share my own..
Scorpio girl with Scorpio guy, our suns are conjunct trining our moons, both in Pisces, my moon is conjunct his Saturn… Composite venus (5 mins) conjunct our sun.. good so far.
been together 9 months, a month ago he asked me to move in, thought he was joking at the time, it seemed unexpected.. then I asked him a month later, exactly when venus was retrograding, exactly conjunct my natal saturn in the 7th house, and when the new moon was conjunct my natal saturn (6 degrees Aries)
He immediately broke up with me, told me he didnt love me and couldnt give me that sort of commitment (he has saturn conjunct his moon, opposite his pluto)
a week or so later we are kind of back together, I am treading carefully, putting no pressure on him, but not sure whether things will improve with the venus direct or whether to call it a day, we soon have a full moon conjunct my sun, at 18 scorpio.
Should I hang in there do you think?
I was wondering if you could help me with something. I know tomorrow is the end of venus retrograde. March 6, my bf and I broke up because I admitted to doing some really stupid insecure snooping of his email address and making up stories to keep him away from girls. I know I messsed up, but was really insecure from my relationship…where the guy cheated on me and hurt me. I took it out of this guy in the wrong way, but as soon as MARCH 6th hit…for some reason all hell broke loose and i had to come clean. Anyways, we are still talking and we are “friends” trying to see if we can find our way together. I am a virgo and he is a scorpion male. What changes do you think the end of this venus retrograde will bring? Starting tomorrow?? What can I expect to happen now that venus is not in retrograde anymore? I am really just stressed and need some answers if any. THanks.
I don’t know how long it will take or if the two of you will ever come together again. It was a good thing for you to come clean about what you did. But it was a breach of trust. I don’t know about him, but it would take me a long time to trust someone who told me lies and snooped my e-mail. It sounds like the two of you have started over, and it may or may not lead where you want it to. But I wouldn’t expect things to immediately turn around on the very day Venus goes direct.
Annie, I don’t know how old you are, but it doesn’t sound like he’s ready to settle down yet. Maybe the relationship will pick up again, maybe it won’t. But I would take it slow with him because I don’t think he knows what he wants.
Actually, Venus’s retrograde is still moving. I saw this illusion yesterday, April 22nd. Is it just slowing down? That was the first time I payed attention to a retrograde.My electronics had a meltdown last week, but they are back to normal now. I suppose that the retrograde is just winding down?
I’m supposed to meet a guy for the first time a couple weeks before Venus turns retrograde in October. My parents have been wanting to introduce me to him for a while now. It’s supposed to be a casual meeting, during a party at my mom’s friend’s house. Is it a bad sign if Venus will be in her shadow phase when we first meet?
Hi Molly, I love your snarky Mercury in Aries style of communication and telling it like it IS!
It’s refreshing. So I’ve waded through these “advice to the love-lorn” letters, because- like small nuggets of gold, I found your responses so cool. Just wanted to say Thanks!
On November 7, 2010, out of the blue, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to be 100% sure that he was ready to be in a serious relationship and he’s not content with his life and career. We had a wonderful connection with lots of affection, sharing, and communication. His birthday is 10/6/81 and mine is 12/21/81 6:00 am. Possibility of reconciliation after this crazy VR? Thank you Molly!
Hi Molly, I’m not sure if you still read comments the dates appear old, however, you seem pretty blunt and to the point and i’ve read some other sites that vary in opinion but I had a boyfreind 4 yrs ago, we were very much in love and outside circumstances made it impossible to stay together at the time. We have recently reconnected and again, worldwind situation. We are both head over heals again but taking things very slow. It sounds as if you are guarenteeing that any relationship that begins during Venus RX is doomed to fail! I am a big believer in the stars and the universe and I believe that positive thoughts bring positive outcomes!! I truly believe this man is the one for me and I am upset seeing all of the negative advice being given in all these posts regarding the timing of these folks relationships (mine included)…. I’m hoping that instead of deciding to take things slow we jump right in feet first and THAT is the change that takes place once Venus goes direct….. I haven’t seen you give that possiblity even once… Do you truly believe because Venus is napping true love cannot be achieved? And if it is (or you THINK it is) achieved its absolutely going to change???? I realize it is not the ideal time to find love but I believe true love can overcome any odds, including the stars!!
Wow, Stacie – I suggest you re-read what I have written about Venus rx because you are really not understanding my words. Venus is not “napping,” and I don’t know what’s going to happen with your boyfriend. But good luck.
Thanks for the help extended through this blog. I will appreciate if you can helpme in the situation i am.I was in a relationship with a girl and we fall in love in july 2011 and decided to introduce each other to our parents. Our parents were happy with the choice and we got engaged and ring ceremony was on 6th Dec. 2011. And the marriage date was decided on coming 27th June 2012. Everything was prepared for the marriage ceremony, even the invitaion cards were done at bride side. But all of a sudden her mother came to my place on 13th May and broke this relationship without giving any reason. Since then i am trying to contact her, but there is no response from her side. After 13th May i haven’t even heard her voice. I came to know about Venus RX. I am in a dilema what to do. Can you please help me what will be the future of this relationship after Venus Directs its way. I am Aquarian and she is Scorpio. Please help in getting the clear picture.
waterdry, I’m sorry but I really don’t know what’s going on either. I can only imagine how heartbreaking that is, coming just weeks before your planned wedding. I do know Scorpio can be very secretive, so there is obviously something she is not telling you. That was a really hurtful thing for her to do to you. I think she owes you an explanation.
Thanks for the response Molly, but atleast can you tell me should i hold on the feelings that things could work up after Venus directs, because I love her a lot and even she was devoted to me, I talked to her without any sign of seperation two days before the incident took place on 13th May, and we were discussing work plans after marriage. Is there any hope left. You must tell me atleast something through your experience, you must have seen different cases like me and their outcome. its too hard to hold on something without any hope. and if there is no chance even minimum percentage then i will try to move on though its tough but i have to face the reality.